Upasana Konidela's Bold Stand: Why Egg-Freezing Is a Right, Not Privilege

Upasana Konidela is standing firm against criticism for advising women to consider egg freezing. She emphasizes that choosing when to have children is a fundamental right, not a privilege. The entrepreneur shared her personal journey of marrying at 27 and having her first child at 34. She believes women should be able to balance career ambitions with family planning on their own terms.

Key Points: Upasana Konidela Defends Egg-Freezing Choice Amid Backlash

  • Married Ram Charan at 27 and froze eggs at 29 for personal health reasons
  • Welcomed first child at 34 and now expecting twins at 39
  • Advocates for women choosing marriage and motherhood timelines
  • Emphasizes career building alongside family planning decisions
  • Faces social media backlash for promoting reproductive options
  • Encourages employers to support women workforce participation
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Upasana Konidela responds to backlash over egg-freezing advice: 'It's not privilege, it's my right'

Ram Charan's wife Upasana Konidela responds to criticism over egg-freezing advice, calling it her right while advocating for women's career choices and reproductive freedom.

Upasana Konidela responds to backlash over egg-freezing advice: 'It's not privilege, it's my right'
"That's not privilege; it's my right!!! - Upasana Konidela"

Mumbai Nov 19

The wife of South superstar Ram Charan and also an entrepreneur by profession, Upasana Kamineni Konidela, has triggered an important debate over women ‘freezing eggs’ to focus on career.

The entrepreneur, who received backlash for the same on her social media, took to her X (formerly Twitter) account and expressed her thoughts yet again: “I’m happy to have sparked a healthy debate & thank you for your respectful responses.

Stay tuned as I voice my opinions on the pleasures/pressures of privilege – that you all have been talking about.” She added, “Don’t forget to check out my images! It has very important facts that will help you make the right comments.” She further added, “And for all those sound employers out there – let’s work together to get more women into the workforce.”

In a post, she asked, “Is it wrong for a woman to marry for love instead of giving in to societal pressure?

Is it wrong for her to wait until she finds the right partner? ” She added, “Is it wrong for a woman to choose when she wants to have children based on her own circumstances?

Is it wrong for a woman to set her goals and focus on her career rather than only thinking of marriage or having children early? ”

In another post, Upasana said, “FACT CHECK: I married for love and companionship at 27—a choice I made on my own terms. At 29, I decided to freeze my eggs for personal and health reasons, something I’ve always spoken about openly to encourage other women to explore their options. (for the record it wasn’t at Apollo.)

I welcomed my first child at 36 and am now expecting twins at 39.” She added, “Throughout my journey, I have given equal importance to building my career and nurturing my marriage, because a happy, stable environment matters deeply when raising a family.” The entrepreneur further wrote, “For me, marriage and career are not competing priorities — they are equally meaningful parts of a fulfilled life. But I decide the timeline!” That's not privilege; it's my right!!!”

For the uninitiated, Upasana, at a recent event in Hyderabad, was seen talking about the idea of "freezing eggs" to have kids later and primarily focus on their careers.

In a video shared by Upasana on her X account, she was heard saying, “The biggest insurance for women is to freeze their eggs. Because then you can choose when to get married and when you want to have kids, on your own terms, when you are financially independent.

Talking about Upasana and Ram, the couple tied the knot in 2012. They welcomed their daughter in 2023, when Upasana was 34. The couple is now reportedly expecting twins.

During Diwali this year, Upasana announced her pregnancy via a post on social media.

–IANS

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Rohit P
While I support women's choices, let's be realistic - egg freezing costs lakhs of rupees. This is definitely a privilege discussion that can't be ignored in Indian context.
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Ananya R
As a working woman in Bangalore, I relate so much! My parents keep asking when I'll get married at 28. Women should have the right to decide their life timeline. 👏
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Sarah B
Interesting perspective! In Western countries, this is more common, but in India it's still taboo. Glad celebrities are starting this conversation. Every woman deserves reproductive freedom.
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Karthik V
Good discussion but let's not forget - in Indian families, there's emotional pressure too. Just having medical option doesn't solve societal expectations. Need broader change in mindset.
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Meera T
Yay! So proud of her speaking up. I'm 32 and focusing on my startup. My relatives keep saying "biological clock is ticking" but I want to be ready emotionally and financially first. 🙏

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