Ashok Kumar's Confession: Why His Parents "Wouldn't Agree" to Love Scenes

A rare throwback interview with Ashok Kumar has surfaced online. The legendary actor revealed he was very reluctant to perform romantic scenes when he started. He even joked that his "father and mother wouldn't agree" to it. His mentor convinced him, launching one of cinema's most iconic careers.

Key Points: Ashok Kumar on Hesitating to Act in Romantic Film Scenes

  • Ashok Kumar initially joined the film industry as a technician, not an actor
  • He was hesitant to perform romantic scenes due to family concerns
  • His mentor convinced him to act, leading to a string of seven consecutive hits
  • He aimed to bring more educated graduates into the film industry
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When Ashok Kumar shared 'father, mother mante nahi the' for love scenes

On his death anniversary, a rare interview reveals Ashok Kumar's initial reluctance to perform love scenes and his unexpected journey into acting.

"I said my father and mother wouldn't agree. - Ashok Kumar"

Mumbai, Dec 9

On Ashok Kumar’s 24th death anniversary, a rare throwback interview showcased the late star shedding light on the humble beginnings of one of Hindi cinema’s most enduring legends.

A video shared by

archives on Instagram showcased the actor talking about how he had initially set out to become a filmmaker and once approached a senior figure for a recommendation letter, saying he wanted to go to Germany to study direction.

“I went to him and asked him to give me a recommendation letter. I said I should go to Germany and become a director. He said, “No one will teach you. The first thing is that we have come here because we want to include all the educated people in films.”

Ashok Kumar, who is regarded as one of the greatest actors of Indian cinema, said that earlier, “educated people didn’t join the film industry. And when they did, they were thrown out.”

“…So I have come to change this. I want to include all the educated graduates. And whatever you want to learn, learn here.’

Ashok Kumar, who joined the industry as a technician rather than an actor, admitted he was initially hesitant to perform romantic scenes.

“I didn’t come here for acting; I was a technician. I asked him to let me act in a love scene from a distance. He said, ‘How is that possible? You will fall in love with the one you love from a distance?’ I said my father and mother wouldn’t agree. Anyway, he convinced me — and then it started.”

“The film was a hit. The first film, Jeevan, was a hit. Then Achyut Karna was a hit. He delivered seven hits in a row.”

Ashok Kumar died at the age of 90 in 2001 of heart failure at his residence in Chembur.

- IANS

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Priyanka N
The part about educated people not joining films and being thrown out is so telling of that era's mindset. Ashok Kumar sahab really was a pioneer in changing that perception. Today's actors owe him a debt for helping make acting a respectable profession.
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Aman W
"Father, mother mante nahi the" for love scenes 😂 So relatable! Even today, many Indian families would have that initial hesitation. It's heartwarming to see how he overcame it and gave us such timeless performances. True icon.
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Sarah B
Fascinating read. His desire to go to Germany to study direction shows he had a visionary mind even back then. Imagine if he had gone! We might have had a great director, but the world would have missed a phenomenal actor.
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Karthik V
While his legacy is immense, articles like this sometimes gloss over the struggles of the countless technicians and junior artists from that time who didn't get such breaks. Ashok Kumar was exceptional, but his story is also one of rare privilege and connection.
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Meera T
His film 'Kismet' is still my grandmother's favourite. These old interviews are gold. We need to preserve our film history better. Thank you for sharing this on his death anniversary. A fitting tribute to a giant of Indian cinema.

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