Twinkle Khanna Reveals Akshay Kumar's 'Mat Kar' is His Only Writing Advice

Twinkle Khanna humorously revealed that her husband Akshay Kumar's only input on her writing is to advise her against tackling certain issues by saying "mat kar." She views her work as a way to unravel social conditioning for both her readers and herself. Khanna credits her late father, Rajesh Khanna, with shaping her love for language through a memorable childhood exchange. The author also shared her struggle to finish a personal book she started at 18 and listed several of her favorite literary works.

Key Points: Twinkle Khanna on Akshay Kumar's 'Mat Kar' Writing Advice

  • Akshay's 'mat kar' advice
  • Writing to unravel conditioning
  • Father's influence on language
  • Unfinished book from age 18
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Twinkle Khanna says 'mat kar' is Akshay Kumar's 'only contribution' to her writing career

Twinkle Khanna jokes that Akshay Kumar's sole contribution to her writing career is telling her "mat kar." She discusses her books, influences, and favorite authors.

"Mat kar is basically his only and biggest contribution to my writing career. - Twinkle Khanna"

Mumbai, April 23

Author Twinkle Khanna has revealed that superstar husband Akshay Kumar's "only contribution" to her writing career is saying "mat kar".

Talking about whether she receives any suggestions from Akshay Kumar, Twinkle said in a statement: "This morning, I was discussing the topics I plan to touch upon in my next column, and he told me, 'Mat karna...do not get into that issue'. Mat kar is basically his only and biggest contribution to my writing career."

Twinkle, who has authored Mrs Funnybones, Mrs Funnybones Returns, The Legend of Lakshmi Prasad, Pyjamas Are Forgiving and Welcome to Paradise, on World Book Day on Thursday, gave a peek nto her lens through which she views the world.

"My job is to make people reflect on the things that are visible. But our own conditioning blinds us to those factors. It might make people uncomfortable and they might call it offensive... (But) I think about how I will unravel the layers of conditioning not just around them but also around me because I also find my way through life as I write."

For her, what stands out is what she has contributed to the spaces.

"It is what I was able to give that medium, and books have always been my life and actually so has cinema. So much of what I write has been because of the experiences that I also had as a young actor, whether it was seeing the basic inequalities between men and women. which I only realised much later in life."

Twinkle feels her skill set aligned more with the world of books because she loves poetry and language.

"It comes a little bit from perhaps, my father (late veteran actor Rajesh Khanna), because I have a distinct memory when I was very young and I said, 'Will you pick me up from school? And he said, "Are you a pickup? I will fetch you from school."

"That kind of just set my parameters of what language can do. And I grew u grew up in a family of readers. My sister (Rinkle Khanna) reads more than I do."

She shared that her 20-year-old self was reading much more than what she reads now.

If she could meet the 20-year-old Twinkle Khanna now, she'd say, "Just keep doing what you're doing and finish the book you started when you were 18. I'm 52, and that one book I haven't been able to finish yet."

"I've tried three times in my life. I'm just unable to write that particular book. Maybe it's too close to home, so my emotions get in the way of transferring that onto the page."

Sharing her list of her favourite reads, Twinkle said: "I would say Fredrik Backman's A Man Called Ove is a book that I love. Arundhati Roy's The God of Small Things is something that I have read several times and I continue to read it."

"Kiran Desai's The Loneliness of Sonia and Sunny: Haruki Murakami's Men Without Women; Octavia E Butler writes fantastic feminist science fiction: anything by Ursula Le Guin; short stories by Jhumpa Lahiri.... F Scott Fitzgerald, PG Wodehouse... My god! I mean, I am standing in front of my bookshelf, so tell me when to stop!"

- IANS

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Rohit P
Respectfully, I find it a bit odd to frame a spouse's caution as their "only contribution." Partnership is about support in many forms, not just direct input on work. Maybe it's just a joke, but it feels a little dismissive.
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Ananya R
Her point about conditioning is so true. We see so much inequality but are trained to accept it. It's brave of her to write about these things, especially coming from a film family. More power to her! 👏
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David E
The anecdote about her father and language is beautiful. "Fetch you from school" instead of "pick you up" – such a small thing that shapes a writer's ear. It shows the power of precise words.
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Karthik V
Haha, typical! Every Indian wife has heard "mat kar" from her husband about something. It's almost a term of endearment. Glad she's so successful on her own terms. Her books are a good read.
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Sarah B
That unfinished book from age 18... I think every writer has one of those. It's fascinating how emotions can be the biggest block. Her self-awareness is really compelling.

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