Sandeepa Dhar Learns Life Lesson from Her 'Do Deewane Seher Mein' Role

Actress Sandeepa Dhar revealed that her upcoming film role profoundly impacted her personal outlook. She explained that playing Naina, a character caught in a comparative sibling dynamic, taught her that "comparison is the thief of joy." The film explores the damaging effects of such comparisons within a family, creating rivalry and conditional love. 'Do Deewane Seher Mein' is set for release in February 2026 and features a cast including Mrunal Thakur and Siddhant Chaturvedi.

Key Points: Sandeepa Dhar on How Film Role Changed Her Perspective

  • Dhar's character changed her life view
  • Explores sibling rivalry and comparison
  • Film delves into family dynamics and pressure
  • Releases February 20, 2026
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Sandeepa Dhar says her 'Do Deewane Seher Mein' character taught her that comparison is thief of joy

Actress Sandeepa Dhar shares how playing Naina in 'Do Deewane Seher Mein' taught her that comparison steals joy. Film stars Mrunal Thakur, Siddhant Chaturvedi.

"Playing Naina taught me that comparison is the thief of joy. - Sandeepa Dhar"

Mumbai, Feb 14

Actress Sandeepa Dhar, who is awaiting the release of her upcoming film 'Do Deewane Seher Mein', has shared that her character in the film changed her perspective towards life.

The actress took to her Instagram on Saturday, and shared a series of pictures from the film with actress Mrunal Thakur. She also penned a long note in which she spoke about how her character taught her that comparison is the thief of joy.

She wrote, "'Look at your brother/sister, how well they', That sentence alone probably just triggered something in you. Who hasn't been compared like this at some point in their life? To their sibling, a cousin or even a friend? The Sharma ji ka beta meme did not appear out of nowhere. I had no idea what it was being the "favoured" one until I played a sister-sister dynamic that landed too close to home".

She further mentioned, "In do deewane sehar mein, Naina and Roshni go through this vicious cycle. Roshni is told she's not enough, while Naina is told she's too much. Playing Naina taught me that comparison is the thief of joy. Naina feels the pressure to maintain an impossibly high standard. Roshni feels like she will never measure up. It turns siblings into rivals. It makes love conditional. It creates wounds that take years to heal. Parents, teachers, relatives; they have no idea. A casual "be like your sister" at the dinner table becomes a voice in your head that never quite goes away. Growing up, were you Naina or Roshni?".

'Do Deewane Seher Mein' also stars Siddhant Chaturvedi and Ayesha Raza. The film, produced by Zee Studios, Bhansali Productions, Sanjay Leela Bhansali, Prerna Singh, Umesh Kumar Bansal and Bharat Kumar Ranga in association with Ravi Udyawar Films. The film is set to release on February 20, 2026.

- IANS

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Rohit P
Sandeepa is speaking facts. This comparison culture starts from school ranks and never ends. It damages self-esteem so much. Hope more people, especially our parents' generation, understand this message from the film.
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Aman W
I was definitely the Roshni in my family. Always felt I was never good enough next to my older brother. It took me years of therapy to unlearn that. Kudos to the team for highlighting such a relevant issue. More power to you!
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Michael C
Interesting perspective. While the "tiger mom" phenomenon exists in the West too, the Indian family structure seems to amplify this sibling comparison. The film's premise sounds very relatable. Will check it out.
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Shreya B
While the message is good, I hope the film doesn't just villainize the parents. Often they compare out of love and their own societal pressures. The solution needs understanding from both sides. Still, looking forward to it!
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Karthik V
"Be like your sister" – that line gave me chills. Heard it my whole childhood. It created a rift between me and my sister that we're only now, in our 30s, trying to mend. More films like this please! 🎬

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