Mother's Sacrifice Pays Off: Pallavi Payeng Wins Silver at Khelo India Tribal Games

Pallavi Payeng, a weightlifter from Assam's Mising tribe, made the difficult choice to leave her six-month-old daughter to return to training. Supported by her husband and mother, she overcame the challenges of a post-childbirth comeback. Her perseverance was rewarded with a silver medal in the women's 69kg category at the inaugural Khelo India Tribal Games in Raipur. Payeng describes this medal as a breakthrough moment that confirms she belongs at the competitive national level.

Key Points: Pallavi Payeng Wins Silver at Khelo India Tribal Games

  • Left 6-month-old daughter to train
  • Won silver in women's 69kg
  • Belongs to Assam's Mising Tribe
  • Husband & mother provided crucial support
  • Overcame post-childbirth comeback struggles
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Leaving her four-year-old daughter behind, Pallavi Payeng bags silver in Khelo India Tribal Games

Assam weightlifter Pallavi Payeng left her infant daughter to return to training, culminating in a silver medal at the Khelo India Tribal Games.

"I left my baby when she was just six months old to return to training. It was an emotional decision - Pallavi Payeng"

Raipur, March 30

When Pallavi Payeng's daughter was just six months old, the weightlifter had to make a difficult choice to either leave the sport she loved so much or sacrifice her time with her daughter and go back to training.

As Pallavi struggled to make a decision between choosing her training or spending time with her daughter, her husband Sukhawon Thouwmung then egged to pursue her dream while her mother offered to take care of the infant. Pallavi made all those sacrifices count as she bagged the silver medal in the women's 69kg category at the inaugural Khelo India Tribal Games.

Belonging to the Mising Tribe in Assam, Pallavi had begun her weightlifting journey in 2018 and steadily built a reputation by winning medals at the state championships. But the COVID-19 lockdown disrupted her progress. During that phase, life moved in a different direction as she embraced motherhood, but the desire to return to the weightlifting platform was still burning bright.

But the thought of returning to the sport after childbirth was both exciting and daunting.

"It is not easy. Though there have been numerous examples of women shining in the international stage after becoming mothers, only a woman can understand what she needs to go through to return to full fitness," said Pallavi to SAI Media.

"I left my baby when she was just six months old to return to training. It was an emotional decision, but I felt it was the right time to restart," said Pallavi, whose daughter, now four, divides her time between Pallavi's rented accommodation at Sarupathar and her grandmother's home in Borpathar, around 20 kilometres away in Golaghat district.

That decision meant long hours away from her child and countless moments when Pallavi questioned whether she had made the right choice. But the support of her family ensured she never felt alone in the journey.

"My husband has been very supportive throughout, while my mother ensures the little one is taken proper care whenever I travel for competitions," she said.

Pallavi's husband, a former national-level boxing medallist, works as a driver with the Border Security Force (BSF) and is currently posted in Jammu.

But despite all this support the comeback was anything but smooth. Pallavi's first attempt after childbirth came in the 2023 state championships in Golaghat, where she finished sixth. The following year in Dibrugarh brought frustration as the competition stretched late into the night, and she struggled to find her rhythm.

But she persisted. In 2025, she finally began to see the rewards of her determination. At the state championships in Tezpur, she claimed a silver medal and then went on to win the gold in the ASMITA league the same year. Another gold at this year's ASMITA league confirmed that she was steadily returning to her best.

The silver medal at the Khelo India Tribal Games in Raipur, however, felt different.

"The Khelo India Tribal Games silver is a breakthrough moment for my career, as this gives me the confidence that I belong to this level," she signed off.

- ANI

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Rohit P
Stories like this from the North East and tribal communities need more coverage. Khelo India is doing great work. Her husband being in BSF posted in Jammu also shows the sacrifices our armed forces families make. Double respect!
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Sarah B
While her achievement is commendable, I do hope there is a stronger support system for athlete mothers in India. The emotional toll of being away from a young child is immense. The sports authorities should provide creche facilities and more structured parental leave for athletes.
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Arjun K
From Assam to the podium! This is why we need platforms like Khelo India Tribal Games. Talent is everywhere in our country, it just needs opportunity and a supportive family like Pallavi's. Jai Hind!
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Meera T
Her struggle after childbirth, finishing 6th initially, and then climbing back up is the real story. It's not an overnight success. It's years of grit. Wishing her all the best for the national stage! 💪
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David E
Incredible perseverance. To come back to elite sport after having a child is a monumental task anywhere in the world. The fact that she did it with limited resources compared to some western nations makes it even more impressive. Well done!

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