Startup Founder Slams Taj Hotel: "Teaching Me How to Sit" Amid Dress Code Shame

YourStory founder Shradha Sharma shared a troubling experience at Taj Hotel's House of Ming restaurant. The manager criticized her for sitting in padmasana position and wearing traditional Indian attire. She expressed feeling humiliated despite earning her own money to afford the fine dining experience. The incident has sparked widespread discussion about cultural sensitivity in luxury establishments.

Key Points: YourStory CEO Shradha Sharma Taj Hotel Fine Dining Incident

  • Manager reprimanded Sharma for sitting in regular padmasana style at fine dining restaurant
  • Hotel staff criticized her traditional salwar kameez and Kolhapuri chappals footwear
  • Incident occurred during Diwali dinner with her sister at House of Ming
  • Sharma expressed disappointment despite respect for investor Ratan Tata
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Startup founder slams Taj Hotel for schooling on how to sit, wear clothes, footwear

YourStory founder Shradha Sharma accuses Taj Hotel of shaming her padmasana posture and traditional attire at House of Ming restaurant during Diwali dinner.

"An ordinary person who through hard work earns their own money comes to Taj Hotel with dignity intact — even today they face humiliation - Shradha Sharma"

New Delhi, Oct 22

YourStory Founder and CEO Shradha Sharma has slammed authorities at the Taj Hotel for shaming her for sitting in “regular padmasana style” at its fine dining restaurant House of Ming.

In a post, along with a video, shared on the social media platform X, Sharma shared the incident that occurred when she went to House of Ming to have dinner along with her sister during Diwali.

Sharma, who sat in a padmasana position on the chair, was reprimanded by the manager and asked to sit properly as other guests raised objections to her way of sitting.

“An ordinary person, who through hard work earns their own money, and comes to the Taj Hotel with their dignity intact -- even today, in this country, they have to face humiliation and insult. And what is my fault? Just this, that I sat down in a “regular padmasana style”? Is it my fault that the Taj is teaching me how to sit, what to do?” Sharma said in the post on X.

The manager also insulted her for the choice of clothes -- “traditional salwar kameez” and footwear -- “kolhapuri chappals”.

She said that she worked hard and earned the money to afford a place at the fine dining, but the hotel is “reeking of richness, culture and class”.

The manager told her, “This is fine dining, and a lot of rich people come here. So, you should sit in a way”, adding that "I don't know what to wear, closed shoes”.

“I am wearing Kolhapuri slippers. And what I wear, I bought it with my own hard work and came here. But to come here and say that you sit with your feet down, this is wrong.

“And someone has an objection and a problem. And it shows that we are still reeking of this richness and this culture and this class. Why? I work hard, and that's why I am here.

“And I am paying for this myself. So, what is the issue? What is the problem with anyone here?” Sharma said.

Noting that she has a lot of respect for industrialist Ratan Tata, who was an investor in her company, the incident left her “disappointed with Taj”.

While Taj is yet to respond to the allegations, the post received several comments supporting her and slamming the hotel group.

“No one should ever face something like this. @TajMahalHotel, this isn’t just a mistake; it’s a serious failure. Hope you take accountability and ensure it never happens to anyone else,” said one user.

“Padmasana isn’t the problem; the problem is the Macaulay-moulded mindset that still measures dignity by Western posture. We’ve produced generations ashamed of their own civilization while pretending to be ‘global’. Countless Bhartiyas have faced such insults countless times,” added another.

However, some also asked her not to expect a homely atmosphere at a fine dining place -- citing hygiene issues, among others.

- IANS

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Rohit P
While I understand fine dining has certain etiquettes, the way they handled this was completely wrong. Kolhapuri chappals and salwar kameez are perfectly respectable attire. The manager's comment about "rich people" was especially classist.
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David E
As someone who's visited India multiple times, I find this incident quite surprising. Indian hospitality is world-renowned, and Taj hotels are supposed to represent the best of it. This seems like a major service failure.
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Anjali F
Respectfully, while the hotel staff was wrong in their approach, fine dining restaurants do have certain decorum standards. Maybe there's a middle ground - maintain standards while being culturally sensitive? 🤔
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Vikram M
This colonial mindset needs to go! We're in our own country and should be proud of our traditions. Padmasana is yoga, it's healthy sitting posture. Taj should apologize and train their staff better. 🇮🇳
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Sarah B
The real issue here is the humiliation, not the sitting style. A good hotel would have politely explained their seating policy without making the guest feel small. Customer service 101!

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