Mumbai, Aug 9
Actress Isha Koppikar, is celebrating Rakshabandhan, and feels that the festival is not about grand gestures but simple moments.
The actress hosted a private celebration at her house, as she spent time with her immediate family which included her parents and brother Anosh, in the comfort of their home.
Talking about the same, she said, "It's always been about simple moments. It is sort of a tradition now, ever since I was a child. Mom whips up delicacies that only she can cook, we all keep our phones and gadgets away and stay in, and we just enjoy being together. That time, that laughter, that bond, it's what makes Rakhi feel so special to me".
While she laughed about her longstanding tradition of asking her brother for the standard gifts every girl demands of her brother, Isha is quick to clarify that it's never been about material gifts. Her brother has been a constant source of strength in her life, a relationship she doesn't take lightly.
She further mentioned, "Those are just fun moments, but what truly matters is knowing your sibling has your back, always. Whether it's childhood mischief or adult challenges, he's been right there with me through everything. Rakshabandhan is about presence, not presents and my brother has always provided me with his presence, during good and bad times".
"I've been blessed with some amazing girlfriends who are like sisters to me, and a few close friends who are like brothers. But I strongly believe that you can't just go around calling people your brother or sister unless you're willing to honour what that truly means. These relationships come with responsibility, trust, and loyalty. It's not just about tying a rakhi or giving a gift. It's about showing up, year after year, no matter what", she added.
— IANS
Reader Comments
As a brother, I completely agree with Isha. These days Rakhi has become so commercialized with people focusing only on gifts. The real joy is in those childhood memories and knowing you have someone who'll always stand by you. Brought back memories of my didi tying rakhi to me every year without fail.
While the sentiment is beautiful, I wish celebrities would also acknowledge how many Indians can't celebrate with their siblings due to work or financial constraints. Not everyone has the privilege of private family gatherings.
Her point about not casually calling people brothers/sisters is so true! In college, girls would tie rakhi to avoid harassment rather than genuine affection. Rakshabandhan should be about real bonds, not social obligations or tactics. ðŸ‘
My sister and I haven't celebrated Rakhi together in 5 years since she moved to Canada. But we still do a video call ritual where she sends me rakhi by post and I promise to protect her from 12,000 km away. Technology has helped keep our tradition alive!
The part about keeping phones away really struck a chord. These days we're so distracted even during festivals. This Rakhi, I'm going to suggest a no-phone rule in our family too. Maybe we'll actually talk to each other properly for once!
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