Shamita Shetty calls out "patriarchal, cave-man like" critics targeting her age, marital status
Mumbai, May 27
Actor Shamita Shetty has given a befitting response to social media critics of her age and marital status.
In a candid and unapologetic Instagram story, Shamita called out the regressive mindset behind such comments, urging critics to stop policing women's personal choices.
Addressing comments on her changing appearance with age, Shamita wrote, "Yes I will look different. Things change with time it's the natural way of life.. nothing stays forever including physical appearance! BUT For my age I'm healthy, fit and happy with a grateful heart for all that the almighty has given me.. and that's all that matters to me."
She also responded sharply to remarks on not getting married "on time".
Slamming what she described as "patriarchal, cave-man like, male-centric thought process", Shamita added, "Aapne shaadi karke kya ukhaad liya hai bhai? (What have you achieved after getting married?) Most importantly why the hell do u follow us single women to age shame us and inflict us with your patriarchal, cave-man like.. male centric thought process! Pl do me a favour n unfollow me pronto!"
Shamita Shetty made her Bollywood debut in 2000 with Aditya Chopra's directorial 'Mohabbatein.' Her career was off to a great start, with her earning the IIFA Award for Star Debut of the Year (Female) after 'Mohabbatein'.
However, her fame slowly faded away. Even though she starred in a few films like 'Fareb' and 'Zeher', she could not gain enough prominence.
In the last couple of years, Shamita garnered a new fan base with her stints on reality shows such as Khatron Ke Khiladi, Bigg Boss OTT 1, and Bigg Boss 15.
— ANI
Reader Comments
While I agree that age-shaming is wrong, isn't it a bit ironic for someone who built fame on Bollywood's unrealistic beauty standards to now lecture us? But yes, her point about marriage is valid - shaadi isn't everyone's life goal. Focus on your own lives, people!
Love her response! "Aapne shaadi karke kya ukhaad liya hai bhai?" - golden line 😂 Indian aunties and uncles need to hear this. Why is there so much obsession with single women's lives? Let her be happy with her fitness and career!
As an outsider looking in, I find it fascinating how Indian society still grapples with these issues. In the West, we've moved past this for the most part. Shamita's confidence is inspiring - aging is natural, and marriage is a choice, not a requirement. Respect to her!
Shameful that in 2024, women still have to defend their life choices. But I'm glad Shamita used her platform to call out this nonsense. Maybe the trolls will think twice next time before commenting on a woman's age or marital status. 🙏
Bold move to address this publicly. It's sad that even celebrities face this - if they can't escape the patriarchy, what chance do regular women have? But Shamita's response was perfect, especially the part about being "healthy, fit, and happy with a grateful heart." 💪
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