Inspired by PM Modi's appeal, Wardha family refurbishes existing mangalsutra instead of buying new gold for son's wedding
Wardha, June 15
In a heartwarming example of how Prime Minister Narendra Modi's appeal has resonated with ordinary citizens, a family from Pulgaon in Maharashtra's Wardha district has decided to forgo purchasing new gold jewellery for their son's wedding and instead refurbish an existing Mangalsutra for their future daughter-in-law ahead of a family wedding.
In a letter addressed to Prime Minister Modi, Satish Gaurishankar Choubey, a small businessman who runs a puja materials shop in Pulgaon, said his family decided against buying a new Mangalsutra for the bride after being influenced by the Prime Minister's call for responsible spending in the national interest.
According to Choubey, discussions were underway in the family to purchase a new Mangalsutra for the bride of his son, Yash Choubey, whose wedding is scheduled for July 1. However, his wife, Seema Choubey, chose to have her own Mangalsutra polished and refurbished before gifting it to the incoming daughter-in-law.
In the letter, Choubey wrote that for the family, the decision was not merely about saving money. It was a conscious effort to demonstrate that ordinary citizens can contribute to national causes through small personal choices. The family felt that responding positively to the Prime Minister's call was their way of participating in a greater national effort.
In his letter, Choubey wrote that although the family belongs to a simple Marwari Rajasthani Brahmin household and would conduct the wedding with full traditional customs and celebrations, they wished to set an example by avoiding an unnecessary purchase.
The family has also invited Prime Minister Modi to bless the newlyweds and expressed hope that they may receive a letter conveying his blessings. According to Choubey, such a message would become a cherished memory for the family and reinforce their belief that they had acted in accordance with the Prime Minister's appeal.
— ANI
Reader Comments
This is such a sweet story! The mother gifting her own Mangalsutra to her daughter-in-law after polishing it feels like passing on blessings, not just savings. In our country, gold is rarely about just money—it carries emotional value. Modi ji's appeal makes sense for families who want to avoid unnecessary debt. Well done, Choubey family! 😊❤️
Honestly, why is this news? Families have been reusing heirlooms for generations—this is not a new idea. It's a bit ridiculous to attribute basic common sense to a PM's "appeal." A mother giving her Mangalsutra to her daughter-in-law is a beautiful tradition, but why does every small act need to be framed as following a political leader? Let's not make this about Modi—it's about family values.
I appreciate the sentiment but this is so performative. Why write a letter to the PM? Just do it quietly. Also, as a woman, I'd feel a bit odd wearing a Mangalsutra that belonged to my mother-in-law—it's like having her presence in my marriage. Some traditions are beautiful, some need updating. Let's focus on real issues like dowry and gold loans, not this surface-level stuff. 🤔
This is indeed a heartwarming story that shows how even small gestures can align with a broader national vision. The idea of reducing unnecessary gold imports is smart economics—India imports massive amounts of gold, which affects our trade balance. The family's decision to refurbish rather than buy new is both sentimental and fiscally responsible. I hope this inspires others to think before they spend on luxury items. 🇮🇳
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